2024 in Pictures

Our Dear Friends and Family,
Sitting to write this letter, which would usually go in a card that a more relaxed and organized Vanessa would typically have designed and ordered weeks ago, I’m keenly aware of the to-do list that isn’t shrinking the way I need it to as the days before Christmas get fewer and fewer! Far from the Advent that we’re called to have as a dedicated time of peace and quiet anticipation before the Christmas season, our Advent – like many of yours, I’m sure – has been more of an exercise in buckling up and hanging on tight as the rollercoaster that has been 2024 seems to only be speeding up and taking some unexpected turns before the year is over. In a run-in today with a colleague at work, I got some much-needed perspective, though. A reminder that despite all the things that are pulling us in 1000 directions right now, and demanding time, attention, and energy that are in short supply, there is still so much to be grateful for – that it is truly the small, simple things that matter in the end. In this moment, I’m choosing to be grateful for the mail strike, because it means I don’t have to edit my letter down to the size of a 5×7 greeting card 😊.
Like any good rollercoaster ride though, there’s been lots of excitement in 2024 for the whole Sweet family, and sitting down to reflect on it all has been a blessing indeed.
Charlotte is now 10 years old (double digits!) and in Grade 5 at Sacred Heart. She continues to be a delight to be raising. Her whole life is narrated in song – there’s a soundtrack to her life that on any given day is a mashup of Taylor Swift, Wicked, and parts of the Mass. She had the chance to put her musical skills to use in the Elementary School musical this year, where she played Squirt in Finding Nemo Jr. Despite having only a few lines herself, she regularly performed the whole musical at home! She was also selected to sing a solo at the school Remembrance Day assembly. She’s keeping busy with piano lessons and swimming, and she joined the Shu-Mil 4-H Club this fall where she’s started with the Dairy project, following in Vanessa and Opa’s footsteps. She continues to be drawing and doodling in all her spare moments (you can see her beautiful 2024 nativity drawing, which was on the cover of the school Christmas concert program as well!) and loves spending time with her cousins and her neighbourhood girlfriends. She got some dedicated solo summer time with Oma and Opa and also with her ‘very old’ friend Leone where she did some camping, lots of swimming and even a little golf. A big highlight of her fall was being an Altar Server at the Eucharistic Congress in Halifax, where she was one of the candle-bearers who led the Eucharistic procession with 500+ people 5km through the city!
Pat has had a busy and very successful year! He’s now a little over two years into his PhD at Saint Mary’s University, and his huge hurdle for the year was passing his comprehensive exams this fall. After summer-long studying marathon and a 5-week writing marathon (while he had pneumonia, no less), he passed with flying colours and is now a PhD ‘candidate’ not merely a PhD Student. As though his PhD work weren’t enough, he’s continued working with COVE on leadership development initiatives, and has started working with Engage Nova Scotia working on their Nova Scotia Quality of Life initiative. He’s also managed to put a little bit of fun back into his schedule and picked up Guitar lessons again this fall, and in the last couple of weeks has started playing pickup hockey (with a group of guys who are mostly 20 years his senior, so that’s a great confidence boost for the ‘young fella’ on the team).
Vanessa has continued in her anesthesia work, with a couple of quick locums in Brandon MB and Summerside PEI this year. Her most adventurous anesthesia undertaking, though, was a 2-week mission trip with Mercy Ships on their field service in Freetown, Sierra Leone. That was absolutely a highlight of her year to have had that experience, and she’s hopeful that there will be more opportunities to serve with them in the coming years. Through her Quality & Patient Safety work she found herself in Scotland numerous times throughout 2024 for the Scottish Quality & Patient Safety Fellowship which has allowed her to do some exciting work on Sepsis for Nova Scotia Health. She’s also kept busy with music on the side (sometimes too‘on the side’ for her piano teacher’s liking!), working toward her Level 10 Piano exam which she will play this coming January, singing in the choir for the Eucharistic Congress, and leading our church’s new special events choir.
In the midst of all of this, we made the (crazy) decision to embark on a major home renovation in the Spring (our house has been gutted!). We’re living next-door to the construction project which has been wonderful and awful in equal measure 😂, but we’re planning on being back in our house in early Spring 2025 (and then living there completely unchanged until we die). We managed to get away for March break, tagging a trip to Paris onto the end of one of Vanessa’s Scotland conferences. It was deliriously fun to tour the city with Charlotte – she was absolutely captivated by the Louvre, save for the Mona Lisa, which she will say is ‘wildly overrated’. We got our usual camping trips in at Kejimkujik National Park, and were able to explore a section of the park we hadn’t previously seen on a multi-day canoe trip. We got a bit of time in with family and friends, but it never really feels like enough. We are really looking forward to making more time for that in 2025 with some of our other projects and obligations wrapping up early in the new year.
And of course, we’d be remiss to not update you on the pets. The frogs, Dill and Pickles, continue to live a peaceful existence with their unnamed snail friend in Charlotte’s fish tank (which currently has no fish in it). Massey is now 12, and like many of her geriatric dog friends is less enthusiastic about how her hips feel when she takes the stairs. The cats continue to run the house, but Stuart McLean is taking his health a bit more seriously this year and has started a bit of a diet to work on his figure (the vet said he was too fluffy). Shelagh Rogers continues to be the goofball of the pets. She can hear a can of tuna being opened from anywhere in the house, so she can be counted on to join Pat in the kitchen for his lunch every day.
At this time of year especially, we want to thank each and every one of you for the special place you have in our lives. Even if our paths only cross occasionally or we’re far away from each other, please know that you and yours are dear to us and you’re always close to our hearts. We hope that this season is a time of joy and celebration and that you’re able to step back from the busy-ness of it all to truly revel in the simple things. May 2025 bring beautiful new beginnings for all the places in your lives that are in need of renewal, and time to enjoy all of the people and experiences you treasure most.
With love,
The Sweets
But the Angel Said to them, ‘Do not be afraid; for see – I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people’
Luke 2:10
2024 Nativity Scene
Every year, Charlotte creates a nativity scene for inclusion in our Christmas cards. Each year, it gets a little more detailed. This year’s version was featured on the cover of her school’s Christmas Concert program, which was a wonderful recognition of her talents.
Flaming Crepe
The best part of our trip to Versailles was this little restaurant we went to for lunch. If you look closely, you’ll see that Ness’ crêpe is on fire, courtesy of the generous serving of Grand Marnier on top. Charlotte thought it looked much better than it tasted.
Sweets at Versailles
Ness and I outside of the Palace of Versailles. We’re smiling because we booked ahead and didn’t have to wait in a line 3 miles long. (Also, art, architecture, blah blah blah).
Epic Paint Job
One of many incredible ceiling paintings in the palace of Versailles. I really think that if the peasants of France could see that the nation’s wealth was being invested in ceilings like *this* the whole revolution thing would have been called off.
My Girls in Paris
Ness and Charlotte enjoying a moment during our trip to France over the march break.
Paris Catacombs
From the Catacombs under the streets of Paris. Contrary to the sunny, welcoming ambiance implied by this picture, the Catacombs were really pretty creepy.
Sorbonne University
This is Sorbonne University, where St. Thomas Aquinas taught starting in 1245. It was pretty incredible to show Charlotte that the saint for whom one of our parish’s churches is named after was a real person with a real job in a real city.
Memorial to the Martyrs of the Deportation
The Memorial to the Martyrs of the Deportation in Paris. Each light represents one of the 200,000 people deported from France to Nazi concentration camps. This was an incredible and sobering stop on our trip.
Flight to Paris
On our way to Paris! Ness was already in Europe taking part in her fellowship in quality and patient safety in Scotland, so Charlie and I were left without adult supervision for a transatlantic flight. Good times!
Pre-boarding Meal
Nachos before our flight to Paris. The drink to Charlotte’s left is apple juice… though given that look, I’m starting to wonder…
Our Home is a Zoo
We always wanted the pets to cuddle up together like they’re a big family, but this is about as close as it gets. Sheilagh almost cuddles with Massey. Massey will love anyone. Stuart mostly hates people and hides 90% of the time. So, yeah, this was special.
Kitty Cat Playground
Here I’ve started to clear the shelves so that we can move next door and get our renovation started. The cats really enjoyed the newfound cat playground.
Skating with Charlotte
Charlotte loves skating almost more than anything else. She’s great on the ice, too. This is taken at Halifax’s Emera Oval.
Daddy-Daughter Date
Here’s a shot from a “Daddy/ Daughter” date night. I’m guessing Ness was on call. We decided to get McDonald’s and watch Dude Perfect on YouTube. If you’ve never seen Dude Perfect, go look them up. They’re a hoot.
One of Charlotte’s Creations
Charlotte is a maker at heart. She’s her best self when creating things. This is a picture of one of her hundreds of creations over the year – Lego man-sized playground.
Charlotte “Doing Homework”
Charlotte, who is supposed to be doing homework. I took this picture from outside, so you can see the reflection of the lights we hung in our cherry trees. I hope *so* badly that those lights still work when we move back in after our renovation. I spent literally days at the top of a far-too-tall ladder borrowed from our church to hang those lights…
Demolition
Renovations begin! Here’s a shot of the very beginning of some of the demolition done to our house in preparation for major renovations.
Beginning Demolition
All the orange marks represent walls that “gotta go”. I tell you, that was a sobering moment to see all that orange paint.
Making Progress
I call this one “The Point of No Return”, where you realize that yes, you really are renovating your home, and no, there’s no going back at this point.
Ness and Charlotte at the Mall
Ness and Charlotte at Halifax Shopping Centre (where “shopping” is their middle name!) I love that slogan. As for the picture, it’s also very nice!
I’m on the internet!
This is the screen you see when you log in to manage your account as an HFX Wanderers season ticket holder. Note that in this trifecta of bald beauty, the bottom left is yours truly. The other two guys have sat in those seats since the first season along with us and have become good friends.
Charlotte on the Eiffel Tower
This is probably my favourite picture from our trip to Paris. This is from on the Eiffel Tower. Charlotte is inspecting the city below, confirming that the restoration of Notre Damme is on schedule.
Making Friends at the Airport
Charlotte loves dogs. And cats. And anything with fur. Or feathers. Or basically anything. Anyway, Charlotte found this dog at the airport and couldn’t resist asking to pet it.
“Appreciating” the Mona Lisa
This is what visiting the Mona Lisa looks like. The famed lady herself is off screen to the right. I was more interested in the crowd, who seemed to be worried that they would never get to see the image again and needed *their own* copy on their phones. Meanwhile, opposite the Mona Lisa is Veronese’s Wedding Feast at Cana, which, frankly is much more interesting. If you zoom in, you’ll see that Jesus is looking pretty stunned, right in the middle of the utter bedlam that surrounds him. Or maybe he’s reacting to the visitors taking pictures…
Almost Everyone Being Cool at Cape Smokey
Charlotte and Ness looking cool at the top of Cape Smokey. Meanwhile, I’m just… there. Why didn’t you guys tell me we were doing “cool” poses?!? I could have for sure come up with something.
On the Gondola at Cape Smokey
Our dear friend Leone and Charlotte on the way up to the summit of Cape Smokey in Cape Breton. Despite Charlotte describing Leone as “very old”, these two are best of friends.
Rainy Day with Massey
Massy and I soaked to the bone on walk through the neighborhood. I just had to capture how sad Massey looked this day. What you can’t see is the fact that she *loves* going out for our walks – even that day.
Cats Doing Things that Cats Don’t Do
Both our cats are odd. This captures them both at their weirdest.
Seaweed Insulation
So, one of the cool things about ripping your house apart is that you get to see what it’s made of. As it happens, our house was made of seaweed. Apparently, this was a pretty common insulation material in Halifax in wartime housing. Also, asbestos. We had quite a bit of that, too.
Professor Pat
Me giving a talk at Saint Mary’s. This was part of a doctoral student consortium that I helped organize.
Charlotte the Sea Turtle
Charlotte played “Squirt” in this year’s school musical: Finding Nemo Jr. She only had a few lines, but she knocked it out of the park. We’re already looking forward to the next one. Charlotte belongs on a stage.
Charlotte and Harlowe at the Wanderers
Charlotte, her dear friend Harlowe and I at a Wanderers game. I’m pretty sure they were there just for the snacks.
Practicing Gymnastics
Charlotte and her little cousin Nora have gotten to spend a ton of time together this year. They get on fabulously. Here they are practicing their gymnastics skills, getting ready to do a summersault.
Rooftop Rockclimbing
While at a conference in Montreal, I found a rock climbing gym with a wall on the roof of the building. It was as cool a place to climb as I’ve ever been.
Butchart Gardens
Ness and Charlotte took a girls’ trip out to BC and visited Butchart Gardens. The girls raved about this place, and it’s easy to see why.
Kissing Cousins
Charlotte and Nora have bonded in a big way over the last year. Whenever we get together with the Staverts, these two are inseparable.
Charlotte at Butchart Gardens
This is one of my very favourite pictures of Charlotte. She looks so grown up, it’s hard to handle as a dad. Here’s my little girl who still loves tickle fights and funny faces looking like she’ll be in high school before we know it.
Camping in Keji
Charlotte and her school friend Olivia came out camping with Ness and I in Keji on the last day of school. It was sweltering hot, but we had a blast. The girls spent the whole time chasing frogs, building forts, and exploring our favourite island site (#12).
Beach day
Charlotte and her little cousin Nora goofing around at Summerville Beach, close to Port Mouton, NS. We spent a lovely couple of days there with Vanessa’s folks and the Staverts.
The “Football Carry”
Ness is pictured here with her nephew George, displaying the advanced “Football Carry” technique.
Keji Frog #872
Every time we go to Keji, Charlotte catches at least one frog. She’s caught so many now, I’ve lost count. The wildlife at Keji this summer was awesome, and Charlotte has started dreaming about becoming a zoologist one day.
Prize Day
Here, Charlotte is being presented with an award on the last day of Grade 4 in recognition of her work ethic and responsibility.
Mia’s Visit
Mia, our lovely bonus daughter from Mexico came to visit us for about a month at the beginning of the summer. As you might be able to tell, Charlotte, Harlowe and Aila are *big* fans.
Ice Cream on the Waterfront
Mia, Charlotte and Leone enjoying some Cows ice cream on the Halifax water front.
Summer fun on the trampoline
What’s more fun than hanging out on a hot summer day? Hanging out on a *trampoline*.
Charlotte and Mia
I’m realizing now that Mia let herself be in pictures this year… last year that just wasn’t something she would allow. I must say I’m grateful, because it was wonderful to have her here and to capture the memories.
The 12′ Tall Camper
Olivia and Charlotte spent quite a while playing around with the hammock while we camped. I ended up sleeping in a covered hammock while the girls took the tent, which was surprisingly comfortable.
Gone fishing
Charlotte reeling in her catch on a trip to Cape Breton with our dear friends the LeBlancs.
Sweets Take on the Frozen Ocean Loop
This summer, we explored the northernmost part of Keji for the first time, called the Frozen Ocean loop. The paddling was excellent, and we saw beavers for the first time in the park, which was awesome.
Academy of Management Conference in Chicago
I spent a few days in Chicago this year at the Academy of Management Conference. I actually got to present some of my research, which was very cool to be able to do at such a large event. Now, only a dozen people came to my talk, but you’ve got to start somewhere!
Site 24, Keji
Ness and I took a little camping trip just the two of us while Charlotte was in Cape Breton with the LeBlancs. Here’s a view of Minards Bay from our site.
The World Famous Billy Goat Tavern
I had a really good burger while in Chicago at the World Famous Billy Goat Tavern. The place was just wild, and looks probably pretty close to how it did almost 100 years ago when it first opened.
Harlowe and Charlotte at Activate Games
Charlotte and Harlowe are all smiles before heading in to play giant room-sized games at Activate in Dartmouth Crossing. They call themselves a “Live-action gaming adventure” centre, which feels pretty accurate.
Charlotte and Stuart
I guarantee that Charlotte is happier about his situation than Stuart, who would prefer if everyone just left him alone.
“Pose for a nice picture, girls”
This is what Charlotte does now. If you look through our pictures this year, there are at least three where she makes this face.
Kayaking at Ingonish Harbor
Charlotte and I borrowed some kayaks while spending time with Leone at her cottage in Ingonish to explore the harbour. Like so many other things in life, Charlotte took to the kayak immediately, forcing me to work to keep up.
Charlotte the Maker
Charlotte spent quite a bit of time at this site using the mud from the banks of the Little River to create a little sculpture of Mary holding baby Jesus. Charlotte is at her best and most focused whenever she’s creating something.
Mary holding Baby Jesus
This is the mud/ clay creation Charlotte fashioned while on our Frozen Ocean loop adventure in Keji this summer. We still have the sculpture at home.
Workin’ hard
Just look at the expression on that face. Charlotte is taking riding this tractor *very* seriously.
Fore!
Charlotte took part in a kids’ golf competition in Cape Breton this summer. Even though she was among the least experienced kids there, she did really well and had a blast.
Demo days
Here the house still has its old windows and doors. It’s amazing to see how much the place has already changed.
Boating with the LeBlancs
Charlotte got to join Maddy and Daniel on a trip to Cape Breton, which included a ton of time on the water.
The bean!
The famous reflective bean in Chicago is even cooler in person than it is in the pictures. I hadn’t really appreciated just how huge this thing is!
Chicago Deep Dish Pizza
This is my first experience of Chicago Deep Dish pizza. It’s actually more of a 3″ thick cheese pie than anything else – but incredible.
Doing dishes at Site 32
Here, I’m cleaning up from supper at Site 32, which is in Keji’s Peskowesk Lake, on l’Isle de l’Orignal. This site has an amazing sandy beach and $1,000,000 views. It’s worth every step of the long portages it takes to get here. I can’t wait to get back soon!
Kayaking in Ingonish Harbour
Charlotte taking a moment to pose from her kayak on a trip to visit Leone in Cape Breton.
No guns allowed (thankfully!)
I was really taken aback by all the “No guns allowed” signs posted throughout Chicago, including at the church I went to for Mass. It’s wild to me that this is the kind of thing that needs to be clarified for people on their way in.
That look
Charlotte and her friend (for the life of me I can’t remember his name) in Cape Breton. I can’t help but be nervous about her looking at a boy like that…
Ness, the Voyageur
Ness insisted on portaging the canoe for a portion of this trip, which is usually something I do. The smile on her face might convince you she’s even having fun, but I was there to hear the colour(ful) commentary along the route, which makes me think “fun” was not what she was experiencing. In any case, she was awesome.
Paddling in Mountain Lake, Keji
Ness and I are paddling in Mountain Lake after having finished a 2.3 km portage, on our way to Keji’s coveted site #32. No wonder she’s smiling! Charlotte didn’t join us for this trip, as she joined the LeBlancs last-minute for their trip to Cape Breton. This made us realize that Charlotte coming on these camping trips might actually be a net gain in terms of what she can carry for those portages!
Making progress on the house
Here you see the new windows that were installed as part of the renovation. We’re thrilled about how much light these will let in.
Alexander, future CEO
Alexander invited me to come play Monopoly with him. Naturally, I was game. I wasn’t prepared, however, for the shellacking I would receive. He put me out of business in no time – I’d never been so thoroughly beaten. He absolutely crushed me, smiling the whole time.
At the Discovery Centre
We took Thomas and Rosie to the Discovery Centre for an afternoon of fun. As always, we had a blast.
Charlotte and Massey on the First Day of School
Here we’ve got Charlotte and Massey posing for their annual first day of school picture. This year, the picture is on the front steps of the duplex we’re living in during home renovations. Massey continues to shrink each year.
Discovery Centre Touch Tank
Rosie, Charlotte and Ness hanging out at the touch tank at the Discovery Centre. This wasn’t Thomas’ jam, so we played for a bit at the adjacent “Water Cycle” display, which was also very cool. Ness might be having the most fun of anyone, if the expression on her face is any indication.
Thomas and Charlotte at the Grocery Store
The Discovery Centre has a mock grocery store set up on their top floor. Thomas is pictured here ringing Charlotte through. Looks like unpackaged fish and bananas are on the menu!
Charlotte at the Eucharistic Congress
Charlotte served at our enormously successful Eucharistic Congress. Here, Charlotte is leading hundreds of people in a 5 km procession from our church (St. Agnes) to Saint Mary’s Cathedral Basilica, downtown.
First Day of School Milkshake
Every year, Charlotte gets a milkshake from our beloved Armview restaurant on the first day of school.
Charlote at the Eucharistic Congress
Charlotte served at our enormously successful Eucharistic Congress. Here, Charlotte is leading hundreds of people in a 5 km procession from our church (St. Agnes) to Saint Mary’s Cathedral Basilica, downtown.
Thanksgiving at the Staverts’
Alex and Mere hosted us, Alex’s family, the and the Versteegs for a wonderful Thanksgiving meal. Pumpkins and flowers courtesy of The Patch.
Northern Lights in Halifax
It has been a dream of mine to see the northern lights one day. I never expected to be able to see them this far south, let alone in the city with all its light pollution.
Charlotte at the Eucharistic Congress
Here, Charlotte is holding a candle while serving in support of the Eucharistic Congress.
Dave and Morely
Charlotte created a paper version of Dave, Morely and the family from the Vinyl Cafe as part of a school project. She used these characters in a short movie depicting a story about Dave toilet training the cat – a must-hear if you’ve never heard it.
Northern Lights above Westmount
Again, I can’t believe I got to see the northern lights from my own backyard.
Brainstorming during comprehensive exams
I wrote my comprehensive exams this year as part of my PhD. I always think best when I’m writing or drawing on a whiteboard. I’m not sure how much of this ended up in the final submission, but whatever I did write ended up being good enough to pass the exams 😀
Northern Lights in Westmount
This is a bit fainter than in the other pictures. The lights were more variable and active than I had expected – there one moment and gone the next.
Aloe Vera, by Charlotte
One day, Charlotte’s class was given the chance to experiment with charcoal drawing. They were challenged to draw a picture of an aloe vera plant. Charlotte’s plan is shown on the left. In the right is another doodle showing two people watching a sunset.
Movie night with the girls
Ness, pictured with her super cool camping headlamp to illuminate her cross stitching, sitting with Charlotte and her fiends for movie night.
Charlotte’s Birthday Party at Activate
I took Charlotte and her friends to Activate (life-sized games/ puzzles/ arcade rooms) to celebrate her birthday. Naturally, I dressed up as loudly as possible for the occasion. Charlotte’s friends *loved* it. Charlotte was… less than impressed with me.
Opa Showing Charlotte the Ropes
Here, Opa is explaining the finer details of cows and what her future 4H judges will be looking for when she gets to show hers.
Charlotte, the City Kid in 4H
Charlotte joined 4H this year and is participating in the dairy project, which means she’ll be responsible for training a calf. Despite being a city kid, she’s over the moon happy to be doing this. She’s also volunteering as the club secretary.
Charlotte and Nora at the Nutcracker
Every winter, Charlotte and Ness go see the Nutcracker. This year, they were joined by Oma, Mere and Nora. The girls are clearly enjoying themselves here.
Kissing Cousins
Charlotte and Nora have bonded in a big way over the last year. Whenever we get together with the Staverts, these two are inseparable.
Christmas Light Inspector
Sheilagh the Cat keeping a close eye on my work as I install this year’s Christmas lights.
Pat Plays Hockey
My friend Guff invited me to join him to play some pickup hockey. I’d been thinking about playing again for years and finally went ahead and got myself some gear. I’ve only been out three times so far, but am having an absolute blast with it.
Sheilagh, the Christmas Cat
We’ve learned that if we leave a scrap of paper, bag, jacket, or any other softish thing on the floor, one of the cats will lay on it. Here, Sheilagh is lounging on the tissue paper we used to protect our more delicate Christmas ornaments.